This morning I am pondering how we truly show
honour to people? I was thinking
about how to honour some people and the Lord said to me “Sarah honour them the
way you want to receive honour.” I
found that really interesting as it made me question as to what I see as honour
toward me in my own life.
While mowing the lawns I came
to see that honour is actually shown more deeply from people when it is given
from the heart, sown by that particular persons love language perhaps and so
often we don’t receive the honour that people are giving us if we are expecting
it a certain way. For instance the
other day a beautiful lady in the Lord gave me a couple of very small roses to
wear on my clothes. It was
so beautiful and so touched my heart and spoke volumes to me and the honour and
love she was showing me because she had thought of me. Often we miss the love and honour
someone is trying to show us because we see it from how we expect to receive it. Another lady gave me a gift to give to
my daughter which just blew me away and so touched our hearts of her
thoughtfulness and love toward us as a family even though she has only met my
daughter once or twice.
So in thinking about it I thought that
actually love and honour towards someone is shown I believe more deeply through
the love languages that people have and they can be all different. For one it may be gift giving, for
another time spent with people, for another seeing a need and fulfilling it
where they can, for another just listening to someone.
So along with me, lets look out for the
honour that is given in our lives although perhaps different to how you may
give it and we will see and appreciate how much God is showing his love toward
us through people because every good gift is from God.