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Perhaps a change of perspective might be needed

This morning I had a dream and in the dream I saw I was shifting a nest of blackbirds as they were in a bad place that was going to get destroyed shortly, but as I went to shift them, the Father of the babies came and tried to attack me.  I wasn't going to hurt them, just shift them so they wouldn't get damaged. Of course the Father was just trying to protect what was his and thought I was bringing harm to his family, but actually my intent was to help them.

Often we can have the wrong mindset about a situation as illustrated by this picture.  Both had the intent of heart to help and protect, but because of the mindset of how we see things, often our reactions comes from our point of view without even taking the time to understand why another is doing what they are doing.

2 Cor 2:10  "The Spirit searches all things, even the deep things of God.  For who knows a person's thoughts except their own spirit within them." 

We often find ourselves fighting with those who are trying to help us often without even realising it.  Whether it be the government, a friend, a boss etc.  We are seeing from our perspective without taking the time to seeing it from another.  To love is to listen to another's heart, not just their words, but to go deeper and try to understand why they do the things they do. 

Let me encourage you today to take the time to try and see from anothers' perspective, to hear their heart and not assume their motives before you attack them out of reaction and end up causing damage to one another when in fact both had a heart of trying to help.

Gal 5:14-15  "For the entire law is fulfilled in keeping this one command: "Love your neighbour as yourself."  If you bite and devour each other, watch out or you will be destroyed by each other."

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